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isozymei was talking the other day about how being gay is pretty frictionless for me these days, generally comfortable and easy, and I don't know why I'm so compelled to write about being gay and being in a place that's hostile to those of us who aren't straight
and my wife asked me point-blank "what name to you use at work"
the name i use at work is not the same one i use with my friends, folks
that's not a thing i think about every day. it's just how it is. a battle i didn't want to fight. a thing -- hah -- that i don't feel comfortable dragging myself through in public. not at work. nope.
so that's revealing, i suppose
sorry for not posting/responding to comments for a while, i have a deadline that's killing me and a fanfiction that is EATING MY BRAIN so i haven't been in the headspace for bloggin'. i'm wondering if i can use light grey text to give myself back some whisperspace? i don't know if it'll work, we'll see. i miss tags.
and my wife asked me point-blank "what name to you use at work"
the name i use at work is not the same one i use with my friends, folks
that's not a thing i think about every day. it's just how it is. a battle i didn't want to fight. a thing -- hah -- that i don't feel comfortable dragging myself through in public. not at work. nope.
so that's revealing, i suppose
sorry for not posting/responding to comments for a while, i have a deadline that's killing me and a fanfiction that is EATING MY BRAIN so i haven't been in the headspace for bloggin'. i'm wondering if i can use light grey text to give myself back some whisperspace? i don't know if it'll work, we'll see. i miss tags.
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Date: 2019-02-14 07:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-02-16 09:36 pm (UTC)some days being a homo is exhausting. at some point i'll write more extremely randy lesbian porn to comfort myself. fingerbanging and pussy eating solve all woes, amiright?
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Date: 2019-02-15 06:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-02-15 06:33 pm (UTC)And I know I shouldn't let one exhausting guy shape my discourse, but... sigh.
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Date: 2019-02-16 09:40 pm (UTC)don't feel guilty about being too tired! the world is fucking exhausting.
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Date: 2019-02-15 10:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-02-16 01:50 am (UTC)(I really like the grey for whisperspace. it's something i liked a lot when i was using tumblr for more confessional purposes and am trying to figure out here)
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Date: 2019-02-16 09:34 pm (UTC)